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05/07/2025

02/07/2025

National Head of Social Cluster People’s Movement for Change Tarryn-Lee Bell

02/07/2025

Life as a journalist….
MOJA Multimedia Life Lessons With G

02/07/2025

In a bustling city filled with ambition and dreams, there lived a man named David. He was a husband to Julia and a father to their two young children, Mia and Ethan. Every morning, David awoke before dawn, the soft light of daybreak barely filtering through the window, casting a faint glow on the family photos that adorned the walls. These images of joy contrasted sharply with the weight of worry that sat heavily on his shoulders.

David had always been an entrepreneur at heart. After several years in a stable corporate job, he decided to pursue his dream of starting his own small business, convinced it was the path to a better life for his family. He had a vision: to create a startup that would provide sustainable products to help families live healthier lives. With endless passion, he poured his savings into the venture, believing whole-heartedly that success was just around the corner.

At first, the excitement was intoxicating. David spent countless nights sketching business plans, attending networking events, and secured a small loan to cover initial costs. The pride he felt when showing Julia the logo of his startup business, “EcoFamily” was unmatched. Together, they imagined a world where their products would flourish, enabling them to provide a comfortable life for their children.

But reality soon set in. Months passed, and the anticipated growth didn’t materialize. Sales were sluggish, and competition was fierce. David found himself spending long hours at his office, sacrificing family dinners and bedtime stories. He watched helplessly as the burdens of financial strain started creeping into his home. The stress took a toll on Julia; the spark in her eyes dimmed as uncertainty gripped their household.

Despite the hardships, David refused to give up. He attended workshops and sought mentors, determined to learn from each failure. He re-evaluated his business model, pivoting from high-end sustainable products to more accessible options, appealing to a broader audience. However, every small victory was met with new obstacles and uphill battles, suppliers who delayed deliveries, online marketing campaigns that fell flat, and a growing list of bills that threatened to drown his family in debt.

One particularly trying evening, after a long day of setbacks, David returned home exhausted. He found Mia sitting on the floor, surrounded by crayons and coloring books. She looked up at him with a smile, holding up a drawing she had made of their family. “Look, Daddy! We’re all together!” she exclaimed, her innocent joy cutting through his despair.

At that moment, David realized he was losing sight of what truly mattered. All his efforts to avoid failure were overshadowing the simple joys of life. He sank to the floor beside Mia, pulling her into a tight hug. “We are together, and that’s what’s important,” he whispered, feeling the warmth of her little body and the soft rhythm of her breathing calm his racing heart.

Inspired by this moment, David began adjusting his priorities. He carved out dedicated family time each week, ensuring that even in the storm of his struggles, his children and Julia always felt loved and supported. Instead of isolating himself in his office, he involved Julia in brainstorming sessions, creating a partnership rather than a solitary burden.

As the months went on, David's resilience paid off. With Julia by his side, they rebuilt the brand, embracing community events and local partnerships. They held workshops in their neighborhood, educating families on sustainability while promoting their products effectively. Slowly but surely, the business began to turn a corner.

However, the journey wasn't without its challenges. David faced moments of doubt and fear of failure regularly. There were days when revenues barely made a dent in their expenses, and nights when he lay awake, brainstorming solutions and worrying about how to keep his family afloat. It was during these moments that he would glance at the family photos lining his wall, remembering the happiness that only came when they were united.

Eventually, David learned to embrace the failures as stepping stones rather than setbacks. He understood that true success was not merely in financial gains but in the connections made with his family and community. Through grit and perseverance, he not only kept his head above water but also started to thrive in a way he never imagined possible.

Years later, while hosting a neighborhood sustainability fair, David stood at a booth adorned with colorful banners of “EcoFamily.” As families gathered around, engaging in activities and discussions, he felt a sense of fulfillment wash over him. He had faced the harsh realities of life in terms of failure, hardship, and despair but also discovered that embracing love, laughter, and resilience often formed the strongest foundation for success.

Together with Julia and their children, David had overcome adversity, creating not just a business but a legacy rooted in values that would guide their family for generations to come. In the end, he realized that while life was unpredictable, the love of family would always be his greatest asset, helping him weather even the fiercest storms.

The Life of David Written by Grant The ByteWriter Harmse
Story continues….

22/06/2025

The Legacy of Hope

Wrapped with the silken tapestries of rugged mountains and boundless oceans, South Africa stands like a fragile jewel in the cradle of the African continent. A country of extraordinary beauty – the golden savannas rolling into the horizon, the jagged waters of the Atlantic crashing against the Cape of Good Hope, and the majestic Drakensberg mountains kissing the heavens yet intertwined with a history marked by darkness and unimaginable suffering. South Africa, a place where nature thrived boundlessly, but its people withered under the chains of manmade tyranny.

This story is told by voices, voices that carried the weight of a nation’s pain and dreams. The eroded hands of resistance. The whispered prayers of mothers who waited at windows for sons who never returned. The resolute voices of the angry youth chanting liberation songs in townships heavy with smoke, fear, and resolve.

It is a story against the grating backdrop of systemic violence, called apartheid, where freedom was hoarded by a select few while millions were rendered silent, stripped of dignity and place.

But to speak of the past alone would do little for those standing in the present. For South Africa's tale does not end in the victory songs sung in stadiums when Nelson Mandela walked free.

Nor does it conclude in the raised black fists of a nation finally finding its voice. South Africa, to this day, remains wrapped in a paradox, a country liberated in ideals but struggling under the weight of economic inequality, tribal violence, racial tension, and corruption that stains the very soil its forebearers fought to free.

The Story Begins:
The Depths of Resistance

The past is never far from the present in South Africa. It clings to the country like the red dust on the boots of workers who walk several kilometers to abandoned gold mines where they risk their lives chasing dreams of wealth long stolen.

The Glory and the Struggle

The decades of darkness that consumed South Africa's skies did not subdue its people. Out of their suffering, great lights emerged leaders like Mandela, Sisulu, Hani, and Tambo became symbols of an unshakeable belief in justice.

The 1994 General Election felt like a miracle, a watershed moment when lines of division seemed temporarily blurred by queues of hopeful voters stretching from the shores of the Cape to the bustling streets of Johannesburg.

But here's the paradox: liberation brought unity, but it also brought expectation. The land was free, but the inequalities borne of centuries of systemic oppression did not dissolve overnight.

A Legacy Intertwined with Hope

Yet, despite it all, there is hope, a resilient hope that has defined South Africa from its birth as a democracy. The voices of the past echo as a warning, but also as an invitation to continue the conversation.

The journey of South Africa is far from over. Its mountains stand witness to the resilience of a people who have scaled incredible heights. Its oceans tell stories of boundless potential. And its people, diverse, imperfect and courageous remain the weavers of its ever-evolving tapestry, carried by a legacy wrapped in hope.

Life Lessons With G MOJA Multimedia Grant Enrigo Harmse Marius L Fransman

10/06/2025

The Sting of Unspoken Regret: When Despondency Settles In

By Grant The ByteWriter Harmse

Despondency can feel like a heavy fog, slowly creeping into the corners of our lives, blurring the vibrancy of the world around us. While many factors can contribute to this state, one particularly sharp barb often lies in the realm of communication, the words we utter (or fail to utter) and the lingering consequences that follow.

We've all been there: a heated argument where words are flung like weapons, a hasty email dashed off in anger, or a critical comment delivered without thought. In the moment, these utterances might seem justified, even cathartic. Yet, as the dust settles, we are often left with the unsettling truth that "words uttered cannot be retracted." Like irreversible echoes, they reverberate in the minds of those we've addressed.

The weight of these irretrievable statements can contribute significantly to feelings of despondency. Perhaps we've damaged a relationship, created lasting hurt, or tarnished our own reputation. As a journalist, I've seen firsthand how careless words, spread through media, can devastate lives and careers.

But despondency doesn't always stem from harsh words spoken in anger. Sometimes, it arises from the things we don't say. The unspoken feelings, the words of encouragement withheld, the apologies left unsaid – these omissions can haunt us just as powerfully as regrettable outbursts. In these instances, despondency takes root in the fertile ground of regret and lost opportunity.

So, how do we navigate this minefield of communication and mitigate the risk of despondency? Here are a few thoughts, gleaned from years of observing human interaction:

Think Before You Speak (or Type): This might seem obvious, but taking a moment to pause and consider the potential impact of your words can prevent a world of hurt.

Choose Your Words Carefully: Even with the best intentions, poorly chosen words can wound. Strive for clarity, empathy, and respect in your communication.

Don't Be Afraid to Apologize: A sincere apology can work wonders in healing rifts caused by thoughtless words.

Practice Active Listening: Truly hearing what others have to say can help you respond with greater understanding and compassion.

Embrace Forgiveness (of Yourself and Others): Holding onto resentment and regret only deepens despondency. Forgiveness is essential for moving forward.

As entrepreneurs, and humans, it's vital to foster positive, supportive communication. While words uttered cannot be retracted, the impact of those words can be mitigated by choosing wisely and striving to promote understanding rather than division. And as I, Grant The ByteWriter Harmse, always try to highlight, maintaining a positive and constructive outlook can help to reduce feelings of despondency.

By Grant The ByteWriter Harmse

10/06/2025

The Crossroads of Loyalty:

Where You Are vs. Where You Want to Be

By Grant “The ByteWriter” Harmse

Sometimes, life tosses us in front of crossroads where one turn leads to personal satisfaction, and the other demands commitment to something greater than ourselves.

These moments feel weighty, like trying to move through quicksand while fire rains from above. Yet, these decisions teach us the most about who we truly are.

At the heart of this struggle lies loyalty, not bitter and beautiful, empowering and arduous, but here’s the blunt truth: loyalty is a two-way street. It’s about respect. It’s about trust. What holds true for you must hold true for those around you. What goes for the goose, goes for the gander. Loyalty owed must reflect loyalty given, and more often than not, this principle isn’t just tested; it’s stretched and pulled apart.

Loyalty Is Earned, Not Assumed

Let’s set the record straight, there’s a world of difference between loyalty and blind allegiance. To truly be loyal, there has to be something worth holding onto, mutual trust, invested time, and shared purpose.

Loyalty without respect becomes servitude, but respect without loyalty becomes selfishness.

Here’s the kicker: true loyalty comes with the expectation of reciprocity, you honor what has been offered, and in turn, respect and trust build into something self-sustaining.

Like a tightrope balanced between two supports, loyalty can only work when both ends hold strong. It inspires a core question whenever you have to make big decisions: Am I valuing the loyalty others have shown me? Or am I disregarding that loyalty because what I want right now feels more important?

The Hungry Dog Analogy

Here’s where hard lessons reveal themselves. Picture a stray dog roaming the streets, hungry and desperate.

The dog will eat wherever food is offered. There’s no loyalty to the hand that feeds; there’s no gratitude to the source of nourishment. The only thing that matters to the dog is survival in the moment, it moves from one opportunity to the next without thought or remorse.

Now apply the analogy to people. When we make decisions, do we act like hungry dogs, chasing fleeting gratification or self-preservation? Or do we pause, recognize who or what has sustained us, and honor it with our commitment?

Hungry beings can’t be loyal. Their decisions are dictated by temporary needs. And if we let ourselves slip into this mindset, we undervalue, and ultimately betray, the loyalty and faith others have generously placed in us.

The Hardest Choice: Where You Should Be vs. Where You Want to Be

Hard choices often force us to confront our desires against our duty. Where you want to be may feel exciting, self-serving, even liberating.

Meanwhile, where you should be may weigh you down, it asks for sacrifices, demands effort, and often feels like the unfair, harder choice.

The truth lies in the ripple effects. When you choose where you should be, you demonstrate something rare: an ability to place the "needs of the many" above your personal cravings.

Look closely at the people who depend on you, whether it’s your family, team, or community. Their loyalty to you is the foundation that keeps them standing tall. It took effort, trust, and sacrifice on their part to foster that mutual connection.

Abandoning them for personal convenience risks more than your short-term gain, it risks leaving scorched earth behind you.

It’s easy to say, “I want to go where I’m happiest.” But happiness without integrity weighs shallow, and fleeting satisfaction fades as guilt and regret settle in.

Still, when you choose to honor that collective loyalty, it isn’t just about restraint, it’s leadership. It’s love.

What Goes For the Goose, Goes for the Gander

Decisions made in the heat of self-centeredness often burn bridges with those we claim to value. A relevant saying echoes this sentiment: What goes for the goose, goes for the gander. If you demand loyalty, it is only morally sound to return it.

Picture this: You are stranded, and someone sacrifices their time, resources, and emotional labor to help you. Months later, life gives you a chance to repay that trust, but instead, you walk away because it’s easier or suits your “preference.” What does that say about the you they invested in?

And if the roles were reversed, wouldn’t you consider their betrayal unforgivable? The loyalty test demands one thing: consistency.

It doesn’t matter which side of the bridge you’re on, if you haven’t maintained it, it collapses entirely.

The Needs of the Many vs. The Needs of the Few

At its core, loyalty requires us to consider the ripple effect of our choices. You may be tempted to prioritize immediate personal needs, but true growth and contribution come when you ask:

1. What does my team, circle, or community need from me right now?
2. How will my decision impact the people who’ve sustained me long term?
3. Am I thinking like a hungry dog, reacting in the moment, or am I building something meaningful here?

These questions aren’t easy, but loyalty demands a perspective larger than your own. The many will always outweigh the few when it comes to the big picture. Life is about building packs, family, friends, or teams united in trust, respect, and common goals.
And loyalty is the glue that binds them.

No Hungry Dogs, Only Steadfast Wolves

We’re not stray dogs. Our lives are too short, too important, to allow decisions to be dictated by short-term convenience. Loyalty to a greater purpose or a well-founded relationship transforms us, not into hungry scavengers, but into wolves who strengthen their pack.

So the next time you’re staring down life’s crossroads, take a breath. Ask yourself: Are you choosing where you should be, or are you chasing what you merely want in the moment? Honor the hands that fed and invested in you, and let your decisions reflect a commitment that others can trust.

After all, hungry dogs will eat wherever the food is, but steadfast wolves build legacies that feed generations to come. Choose long-term loyalty over short-term hunger.

Choose honor over impulse. Therein lies your strength.

Stay loyal,

Grant “The ByteWriter” Harmse

30/05/2025

25/05/2025

Wishing You a Joyful and Celebratory Africa Day!

Dear Colleagues,

On this significant day, I want to take a moment to extend my heartfelt wishes to all journalists, marketing practitioners, public relations professionals, and media personalities across our beautiful continent.

Happy Africa Day!

Today, we not only celebrate the unity, diversity, and rich cultural heritage of Africa but also acknowledge the crucial role each of you plays in shaping our narratives, driving impactful stories, and fostering communication within our societies.

Your dedication to your craft, your unwavering commitment to truth, and your ability to inspire and connect people are truly commendable. As we commemorate this day, let us also reflect on our collective responsibility to continue contributing positively to the growth and development of our nations.

May this day be filled with joy, pride, and renewed motivation to advance the African narrative on the global stage.

Warmest regards,

Grant "The ByteWriter" Harmse