06/15/2026
A lot of you know that we carry Hot Wheels but you may not know the reason why. THE REASON WHY IS PROSTATE CANCER.
When I purchased this store one of my best friends, Bob, was going through treatment for prostate cancer. By the time he paid attention to his body, he was at Stage 4. If you know anything about cancer, you know that this is not good. Bob started to become very vocal on his social media encouraging other men to get their checkups. He would write extensively about his story and what he was going through.
Bob worked putting up signs in addition to doing pools in the summer. If you bought a Lions sticker here, he made it. As time went on, the treatment and the cancer wore Bob out. He stopped working but knew that he couldn’t stay in the house all the time.
Bob, was a Hot Wheels collector. I don’t mean like he had a few, no, he had a few thousand. He always had one in his pocket, he took them on trips, they were in his car, he even had a room devoted to them.
When he realized that he would not be beating cancer he decided that he needed to thin out his collection. He didn’t want to leave it all for his wife and children to take care of. He came to me and said, “You should really sell Hot Wheels in your store.” I laughed and joked that he only wanted me to do that so he could come here and go through them. You see he didn’t want me to sell just any Hot Wheels, he wanted me to sell his. He came up with a plan, half for me, half for him, and he would come in and replenish them as they sold. We made a deal. It worked for me, I got to spend time with my friend, and he made it feel like I was helping him. He would come in, fill a few, and make them look all pretty.
As time went on, I could tell that he was getting increasingly tired. He would sit on the step stool to put up the Hot Wheels. He was getting too exhausted from walking from the car to the store.
Then he called me on a Wednesday night to ask if I could take him to the emergency room when I got out of work, his wife was on driving restrictions. I said that I could and true to Bob fashion, he got impatient and drove himself. That night I went to the hospital; we joked about him being impatient and I said that I hoped that he would be out soon. Little did we know that when he came out it would be on hospice. We lost him soon after, March 16, 2024 to be exact. 4 years. It took 4 years.
I haven’t given up on carrying Hot Wheels. I buy them and when I do, I share his story. I want people to remember him, to think about him when they see Hot Wheels. I know that every time a little kid buys a Hot Wheels, or an avid collector finds something that they can’t live without, he is smiling at that.
I say all this and share this story because I have a customer who I see every day. He shares a lot of his life with me. He had an elevated PSA and has gone in for a scan. He has prostate cancer. Not aggresseive but he has it. I've shared Bob's story with him. I knew he would want me to share it and to encourage my new friend. While I wait for him to share with me after his next doctor’s appointment what course of action they will take it makes me think of my friend Bob, of how he wanted to spread awareness. No one can tell you what to do, how to proceed but I want to make sure that I continue to just make sure that people are knowledgeable and that they understand the importance of early detection.