09/06/2026
Three years ago this weekend, our magical friends Hundu Contracting and Bailey Dunyo pulled the paper off our windows and let the light pour into this beautiful space. Watching this video gives me so many emotions at once!
Mostly, I am so grateful for everyone who made that moment possible. We had so much help.
But watching that paper come down also makes me remember Haritha putting it up, exhausted and dejected. It was a few days before our first Christmas in Port Medway, and we'd decided to block out the view after getting an email from a stranger telling us our renovations were going to ruin the store.
The truth is, we took on all of this with an open heart and a lot of optimism. But there was so much we had to learn along the way. We also repeatedly ran out of money, and both had major health crises in our first year here. We really didn't know what we were in for when we bought this space, some of that was our fault and some of it wasn't. But this email is just one example of the steady criticism, and it took a lasting toll.
But yesterday was so beautiful! We didn't take any Afternoon Tea reservations, to give our kitchen staff a break. Then one of our dearest local customers wanted to bring her BFF here, so Haritha got up early and made a tray just for them. The coffee crew trickled in despite the grey skies. A mother and daughter duo arrived for a camper getaway, and we found monarch chrysallises in the garden. A Bridgewater family was having treats, and I invited them to check out the caterpillars too. The little ones played on the teeter totter after, and when Irving saw them from his window he came out to spin a yarn to their parents. Before the family left, we schemed a Hallowe'en music show that is going to be so much fun.
It was perfect moment after perfect moment.
We love having this place so much!! And we also carry a lot of hurt feelings and shame about things that happened our first two years here. But with every anniversary and every interaction that makes us feel like we belong, that is gradually fading into the distance. I can't wait until it is gone forever.
Happy Rosefinch-iversary! To everyone who rooted for us and everyone who rooted against us haha. 💛❤️